Do you want to finally do what you love and create the life you want? Do you want to live life the way you want and not according to someone else’s means? Then this is exactly where you need to be. This whole blog is about creating and living the live you want, following your dreams and experiencing the bliss and stoke of the every day. Though today I want to focus on that question more in detail and give you a few tips on how you can start living the life you love. I will help you to create the live you want and become happy and successful. Sounds good? Okay let’s do it!
Before I give you my ten-step guideline to becoming happier and experiencing the bliss in every day, I want to talk about what it takes to create the life of your dreams. While of course you need certain tools, like knowledge, experience, money and time to create the life you want, there are a few basic approaches that you have to get implemented into your Mindset to really make this happen. The dream life looks different for everyone and therefore we all have individual requirements for getting there. However, no matter how much money you have, how experienced you are or how much you know about anything, it is always possible to chase your dreams and make them become reality.
It all comes down to one thing: your Mindset.
If you can enjoy life every moment, with all its ups and downs, no matter what you do or where you are or whom you are with then you have already succeeded. You don’t need to necessarily reach the destination that is your dream to live the life you want. A life full of happiness and fulfilment. If you see beauty in all your experiences and put meaning to every action you will be taken to your dreams without much effort. Sure, sometimes to create the life you want you need to push through hard times, do things you don’t like doing and challenge yourself. But if you can also enjoy those times and see the positive in them you are making the energy that is brought to you by the universe your own and you can use it to make those dreams come true. You need to truly believe that you can do this. You are in charge of your life, you make your own decisions, you choose whether to work with life or against it.
Have faith that everything will turn out like it’s supposed to be.
Be confident about your capability to make happen whatever you want and adapt a positive Mindset. Start enjoying the journey and stop worrying about the outcome. That said, here’s how to create your dream life.
Before creating the life, you want, you of course have to figure out what it is that you want. Make sure you are certain about that and that it really is what you want and not what others want. Listen to yourself, your feelings and desires and ask yourself whether doing this will make you happy or not. Bliss only comes from doing what you really love and not from doing what you think will help you later. Also, you should be certain that you are willing to sacrifice for that things. Chasing your dreams is not always fun and if you are not willing to eat the shit to get further this dream might be not worth pursuing it.
Once you figured out what it is that you want, go for it. Don’t let anyone hold you back from pursuing your dreams. Be mindful and certain about your destination and start putting up a strategy to make your dreams happen. Though, never forget to appreciate the journey more than looking towards the destination. Otherwise you’ll find yourself unsatisfied and unhappy about where you’re currently at. And that would be a pity because you are exactly where you need to be and everything you do will lead you to where you’re supposed to be.
I know it sometimes can be confusing to figure out what you want. But always remember to follow your heart. It doesn’t matter if you are rich and successful (in terms of business) or not, all that matters is, if you are happy and if you are doing what you love. And by that I don’t mean it has to be fun all the time. Even our deepest passions sometimes are not fun and we don’t enjoy doing them at times, but if we push through those times, knowing that this is what we have to do then the fun will come back at some point.
Is what you want a little crazy? Okay great! That is exactly how it should be. Don’t settle for something normal and easy just because it feels more comfortable. If what you want is challenging and extraordinary, awesome, go and pursue it. Go for whatever you want.
“If you’re not called crazy when you start something new, then you’re not thinking big enough”Linda Rottenberg
Once you are confident about what you want and that you can reach it, be committed to your gaol to create that dreamlife. Don’t let anyone throw you off course or talk you into something else. It’s your life, it’s your decision.
Bliss doesn’t come from going the well-known path. Sometimes to pursue your dreams you need to swim against the current. But that is okay, no, that is great because that means you are following your heart and getting one step closer to making your dream happen. And even though it might be scary at times, it will also help you grow and you will learn important things on the way. Challenging the unknown will lead you to greater happiness and luck than you’ve imagined possible.
Every dream life in the end is about being happy with where you are and what you have. Start by loving the up and downs of life. Chasing your dreams is not easy and there will be hard times and struggles. But don’t let them stop you, learn to enjoy them and appreciate them. They belong to this journey and will teach you important things you need to know about yourself and your dreams.
Side note: I have something really exciting planned for you guys. If everything works out I will be able to give you that one thing that will help you create the life you want by end of this year. It will help you to find the happiness and also appreciate life with all its ups and down. It’s a collection and guide including all my experiences and knowledge and strategies on how to create a happy life and reach your dreams. So, stay tuned, I’ll keep you posted.
While the decision on what you want will always be only yours to consider, letting in great people can be very rewarding and helpful throughout the journey of making your dreams happen. Good people can encourage you to push through hard times, inspire you to take on new challenges and motivate you to keep going. You don’t have to do this alone. Just stay true to yourself and seek people that support you wherever you want to go.
Like I said, there will be difficulties at some times but I know you are strong and you are willing to do whatever it takes to get what you want. So, learn to deal with struggles, learn to analyse and reflect upon them. Take the lesson and adapt as you go.
To make sure you keep that positive Mindset and momentum up, learn to see the advantages in negative situations. You can’t change them but you can change how you feel about them. Experiencing the bliss is what you need feel you’re still on the right track towards your dreams.
What is bliss and why do I keep talking about it?
Like I said above, no matter what your dream life looks like, in the end it all comes down to you being happy with your life. The bliss aka. the stoke is this overwhelming positive feeling you get once you are completely happy and one with your life. The steps above will help you create the life you want and therefore better the chances for you to experience this bliss in the every day.
However, there is really only one thing you can do to find it keep that bliss up. You need to understand that success in life isn’t about money, influence or reputation. It is about finding inner peace and happiness. Living a successful life is finding balance between striving for your goals and giving back to the world through your creations, actions and inventions and the actual living part which is enjoy life at this moment and giving up the need to find fulfilment in anything other than what you have. Once you create happiness in every day you will feel happy about life in general. Enjoy the journey, enjoy your life and you will automatically get the life you’ve always wanted.
Measure how good your life is on how happy you are right now, maximize the up times and minimize the down times, create little things/habits every day that make you happy (Money Mustache)
That said I can just stress again how excited I am to be able to give you that guideline to happiness very soon. I hope this post gave you a little inspiration and while you are waiting for this very surprise to come and guide your trough the journey of creating the life you want start building some happiness now. It doesn’t matter where you start, just start.
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Lastly, if you need help with creating the life you want or just someone guiding you on this journey, message me and let’s discuss how working together on this could look like!
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